FW: Libby Paul Update Day 12

Friends-

 

Here is the latest update on Libby:

• Libby has settled into Children’s Mercy and has begun her rehab. 
• Libby is in a stage known as Agitation.  The Agitation stage is caused by her brain being stimulated by multiple things at the same time.  This stage leaves Libby very agitated which shows up with her being unsettled, frustrated and irritable. 
• Libby will have to have her current back brace replaced, because it is uncomfortable.  The Orthopedic team will be putting Libby in a new brace which will support both her back and neck, but will limit her movement even more.  Troy & Dorsey are worried this will frustrate her more.
• Troy and Dorsey are tired and exhausted because they have found it difficult to get away because of the amount of work and support Libby needs.

 

Here are some thoughts on how to pray for the family….

• Libby
• Her adjustment to the new brace
• For Libby to move the next phase of this recovery journey known as Confusion Appropriate phases.
• For her medical teams to have wisdom and discernment as they map out her recovery and rehab plan
• To celebrate the miracle that she is alive and his progressing extremely well for the severity of the injury
• Troy & Dorsey
• Time for them to get a breather; Libby really needs their help right now.
• Endurance & Energy, Patience & Peace

 

 

Since Libby is now in KC and has begun the long journey towards recovery, we will leave you with the website to check for yourselves for the latest updates. http://www.caringbridge.com/cb/inputSiteName.do?method=search&siteName=libbypaul  Please pass it on to anyone who would like to be updated.  If there are any significant updates or needs immediately, we will mass e-mail.

 

We ask you to continue to keep them in your prayers.   If you have any additional questions, please call us @ 913.390.8255 or kujayhawks@comcast.net.

 

PAS

 

 

Hello, Paul Prayer Partners,

I've missed you all!! :)  It's been awhile, so thought we'd send a quick update on our sweet Libby:

Thanks to all who joined in the prayer meeting last night as well as the conference call yesterday afternoon.  I know the Pauls appreciate all the love and support everyone continues to give, and they're anxious to reconnect with all their family and friends this week.

Dorsey said Libby had a really great evening last night~Must have been all those prayers!! :)  She was very calm, and even read books and watched a movie with Troy before falling asleep.  However, in the middle of the night, she woke up trying to pull her IV out, so they gave her some medicine to calm her.  That made her groggy this morning.  Dors said Libby had a tough time during all this testing, including x-rays, CT scan, blood draws, etc., yelling at the PT/OT people.  She was very tired.

Today was a very active day for Libby.  She did physical therapy this morning and became agitated, but the therapist told Dorsey this is all part of the healing process.  Please continue to pray that the Pauls have peace that the LORD will bring Libby out of this agitation phase and that she won't be "stuck" in it.  We continue to hear reports from friends in the medical field at how awestruck they are that Libby survived the fall in the first place, and that now she's back in KC so quickly, and that it's alll happened so quickly when it's only been a few short days.  So many, many miracles along the way we've all witnessed, and we are so grateful!!  No more broken bones, no further complications, no surguries so far.  God is faithful!

Also, they're measuring Libby for a new brace.  Her existing one is really uncomfortable, but they're talking about making one that is for both her back and neck in one piece.  Troy and Dors are worried that will limit her movement too much and frustrate her even more.  Please pray for wisdom for this amazing medical team at Children's to make the right decision.

The doctor just arrived as I was talking to Dorsey, so she had to call me back. The orthopedic team reevaluated Libby's neck and back today and realized that she really needs a full-length brace because of not only the T9 and T10 bones in her back that are broken, but also the pulled ligaments and swelling in her neck.  Apparently it needs additional support.  Libby will get her new brace tomorrow, and Dorsey is honestly dreading it.  She's fearing Libby will really balk at being more immobile.  She said Libby has said to her already, "Mom, you're choking me."  She thinks someone is choking her when it's the brace she has on.  This new brace will limit her movement even more.  We're not sure how long she'll have to wear it.  Now our prayers will need to be that Miss Libby Lou can calmly adjust to more confined quarters! :)  Dorsey said overall, it's been a good day~ And that's good to hear for a Monday!! :)

Nothing blesses me more right now than to hear all the reports of how these simple emails have changed so many lives.  Thank you for your kind words, and for joining us in praying continually for the Pauls.  A dear friend remarked today that she has never seen something of this magnitude join so many people together, riveting them to their computers for the next update, and never leaving our thoughts as we go through our days.  I feel humbled to be the one communicating what the Pauls tell me each day to you all.  The body of Christ is truly amazing!  Let's keep being faithful to pray for them, believing God will continue to heal Libby completely!

Today, my devotional was focused on prayer...how ironic!! Ha! Again, from my friend Donna Partow in Becoming the Woman I Want to Be ~ (first quoting Peale)

"When you pray for anyone you tend to modify your personal attitude toward him.  You thereby lift the relationship to a higher level."  ~Norman Vincent Peale

"One of the most practical steps you can take to improve any relationship is simply to begin praying for the other person.  It is almost impossible to remain angry, bitter, or indifferent toward someone when you are actively praying for his or her welfare.  It is difficult to treat someone cruelly while asking God to bring about the best in his or her life.  And it is much easier to forgive an offense as you pray for someone and begin to see that person broken at the foot of the cross--or in need of a Savior.

Begin praying for everyone you meet.  Even total strangers!  One way to move people from your list of acquaintances to your list of friends is to inquire how you can pray for them.  Then pray for them each day, asking for updates on a routine basis.  Soon you will know this person's nearest concerns and they will know you truly care.  How much more important it is to pray for our family!  Some of us live such hectic lives, we hardly know our nearest relatives!  But ask how you can pray for each one.  Listen attentively, with a pen and prayer notebook in your hand.  This will surely get their attention and, ultimately, win their affection."

We'll keep you posted as we hear more~ Praying with you,

Joy Shiner :)

 

FW: Restaurants in the CMH Area

 

Friends—

 

As mentioned in the previous email about providing restaurant gift certificates for the Paul’s.  Here are few sources for restaurants that are near CMH. 

 

Crown Center	http://www.crowncenter.com/dining/index.html
Jack Stack
Lidia’s
City Scene
Panera	www.panerabread.com
Smokin’ Joes BBQ
Subway
Planet Sub
Plaza	http://www.countryclubplaza.com/plaza.aspx?pgID=882
Mr. Goodscents

 

Plese send the to CMH in care of Troy & Dorsey.

 

Paul Schmidt

M: 913.269.8333

H: 913.3908.8255

E: kujayhawks@comcast.net or pschmidt@fivestarspeaker.com        

 

 

FW: Libby Paul Update Day 10

Dear Paul Prayer Partners,

Ten days on this journey together, and here we are:

Today is Saturday, and Dru was able to go up to the hospital awhile.  Libby is extremely agitated today, waking up every 30 seconds or so, like she's waking up from a bad dream.  Her arms are flailing, she's crying, rolling around in the bed, etc.  Basically someone has to hold her most of the time.  They've put a net-type structure over her bed now since she's pulling up so much, so that she won't fall out.  She's also got a sore on her left hip because the brace is rubbing into her side, which is getting worse and worse because of all her moving around.

Troy and Dorsey are very tired today, and realizing this will be a long haul with some long days.  The plan for the rest of the weekend is for her just to try and rest and continue to heal.  Therapy won't start until Monday and this is making for some long days and nights.

We've been brainstorming the TOP 5 ways you can help the Pauls that we know of immediately.  Feel free to do whatever God puts on your heart to do for them.

1. PRAY ~ This remains the greatest gift we can give them.  Libby's recovery process rests completely in His hands.  Please continue to pray for a FULL RECOVERY for her, and that she would be able to calm down and rest.  Please don’t forget about Troy and Dorsey…They are facing pressures from all fronts…caring for Libby, tending to their family, and the new burden of dealing with added medical expenses that will be racked up for the care of Libby.

2. MEALS ~ Mandy Hill volunteered to coordinate meals for the Pauls for the next several weeks, so please email her at mandy@everestkc.net if you are interested in doing this.

3. CARDS/LETTERS~ Getting mail is so much fun, and you can send any cards, verses, thoughts, stories either on Libby's website at www.caringbridge.com/visit/libbypaul or to Children's Mercy Hospital 2401 Gilham Road, Kansas City, MO  64108.

4. GIFT CARDS~ Troy and Dorsey will be needing meals at the hospital, so any restaurant gift cards would be a great idea for breakfasts and lunches, such as Panera, Crown Center, etc.

5. DONATIONS~ Right now, so many of you keep asking when you can give to help the Pauls, which is overwhelming to see the outpouring of love for them.  As of now, their out of pocket expenses are totaling over $13,000.  It is not our intention to ask for money.  We are simply responding to the numerous requests to send financial help.  Please respond to this only if you feel God wants you to give.  We're offering to give them one check from "Friends of the Pauls" so that the gifts are anonymous.  If this appeals to you, please reply to this email for more details.  Your other option is to send your check directly to the Pauls, which is fine as well.  

Let's continue to lock arms together and lift up the Pauls as they embark on this next leg of their journey.  The road will be long, and it will not be easy.  Thanks to all who are reading this who are faithful to pray each day and who are asking others to do the same.  You are such a blessing to us, as we pass along news of this to the Pauls.

Now guess what song is running through my mind?  Sing it along with me, will you? :)

"I'm so glad I'm a part of the family of God, I've been washed in the fountain, cleansed by His blood.  Joint heirs with Jesus as we travel this sod, for I'm part of the family, the family of God." 

Our love to you all,

Dru and Joy Shiner :) 

P.S. Don’t forget about the Prayer Time at Covenant Chapel tomorrow night @ 7PM located on the north side of 135^th & Kenneth rd.

FW: Prayer Meeting at Covenant Chapel

 

 

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From: Leah Kneisler [mailto:leah@realnicehomes.com]
Sent: Saturday, June 10, 2006 8:57 AM
To: onceuponapicture@comcast.net; 'Paul Schmidt'; JeffPalmer@EverestKC.net; whitney@stikc.com
Subject: Prayer Meeting at Covenant Chapel

 

Do you mind forwarding this on to all of the people you have been sending updates to? Is there a way for this invite to get sent to Westminster families? Thanks!

 

Prayer Meeting for the  Pauls

Sunday June 11^th at 7PM

At Covenant Chapel in the sanctuary right inside the main entrance

135^th St and Kenneth, 1 block east of Stateline Road

No childcare provided, but kids are still welcomed as they are spiritually growing through this too.

 

 

Covenant Chapel (913) 663-3095 13300 Kenneth Road Leawood, KS 66209

   

 

 

 

 

FW: Libby Paul

 

 

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From: Sandy Caudell [mailto:sandycaudell@hotmail.com]
Sent: Friday, June 09, 2006 8:25 AM
To: kujayhawks@comcast.net
Subject: Libby Paul

 

 

God is so good and He has surely been showing us HIS GLORY. 

In the Daily Walk Bible for June 8 I read in Psalm 40: 3 - 5:  "He has given me a new song to sing, a hymn of praise to our God.  Many will see what he has done and be astounded.  They will put their trust in the Lord.  Oh the joys of those who trust the Lord, who have no confidence in the proud, or in those who worship idols.  O Lord my God, you have done many miracles for us.  Your plans for us are too numerous to list.  If I tried to recite all your wonderful deeds, I would never come to the end of them"

An we all say AMEN!

Sandy Caudell

sandycaudell@hotmail.com

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FW: Libby Paul Day 9

 

Good Friday morning, friends!

Here's the latest from Kellie, Dorsey's dear friend who has been staying with them:

Last night was tough! Really tough!!  Sweet Libby has just been screaming, to the point that she's hoarse today.  She seems very scared.  Dr. McKee had told them it would be like waking a child from a deep sleep...times 1,000 for irritability.  That's exactly what's happening.  He reminded them that this whole process will continue to be up and down, up and down, but we're still moving in an upward direction.  We simply HAVE to go week to week, vs. day to day.  He assured them that this time next week, Libby will have improved so much, and the next week, more improvement.

So please pray for Dorsey's anxiety right now.  Dorsey is really being affected by all this and needs our prayers today.  Pray for God's peace to rule her heart and mind this morning.

Kellie and I had to get off the phone because the air ambulance people had arrived.  Our schedule is already delayed a bit, but we'll keep you posted.  We were unable to talk to the Pauls because of them trying to keep Libby calm.  Pray for perseverance, patience, and strength for today's trip.  It will be a long day for their family!

Kellie said the verse they're claiming today is Isaiah 41:10 ~ "So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am Your God.  I will strengthen you and help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand." 

More updates when we hear news ~

Joy Shiner :)

 

FW: Libby Paul Update - Day 9 Part 3

Hey, everyone,

I was so thrilled to get to see Troy and Dorsey and our hero, LIBBY PAUL tonight for a few precious minutes!  What a treat!  Troy and Dorsey are visibly exhausted, as we all can easily understand.  But they are SO GLAD to be HOME!!!  My favorite moment of the entire week was when I walked over to the bed, and Libby stopped rolling around and looked right at me.  Her eyes lit up immediately, so I knew she recognized me.  I told her hi, and that I was so glad to see her.  I asked her how she was doing, and she said, "Fine."...wow!  So then I told her I'd missed her and had heard she had a lot of fun last week on her vacation trip.  She answered, "Yeah."  You guys, she is totally tracking with conversations.  I was in shock to experience it firsthand.  Then I told her my daughter can't wait to see her when she gets all better, and she started rolling around and crying out again.  She is visibly frustrated not to be able to say what she wants to say, and not to get to be up and around.  A few minutes later, she asked Troy how many days she would be at the hospital.  Troy told her 15 days.  Then she asked him how many MORE days she would be there, and he told her 14, because this is her first day. She calmed down.

Folks, that is utterly amazing to me!  I know she has to wait for her speech to catch up to her thinking, but she is alive, well, and processing great!  That is a miracle!  That is a direct result of all your fervent prayers!  I feel like I was blessed to get to experience what all of you have been asking our heavenly Father for all week!!  What a THRILL!!!  :) 

SO, prayers for the Pauls now would be for their rest and recovery.  Libby had her worst night last night, and they're plum tired.  Also, Dorsey said her rehab starts Monday, with several sessions one right after another, like a summer school.  Troy said it was so cool when they arrived this afternoon that the entire staff assigned to them came as a group and introduced themselves, hearing Libby's story after.  They are so excited about this incredible hospital.

I know everyone who is local is very anxious to see the Pauls.  After being there tonight, I know it would be helpful to them if it was adults only at this point, since it would be upsetting to kids AND it is VERY upsetting to Libby.  She is really needing a quiet room right now.  Also, as you know, you may not get much time with them, but a journal is available there in the room for you to sign and write your thoughts if you wish or if you miss them when you arrive.  Remember, they are going to be there for the next three weeks, so if you can't make it this weekend they will need just as much, maybe more, in the future.

Also, feel free to mail them cards/letters/gift cards, or any other wonderful things you've been asking to do for them to Children's Mercy Hospital  2401 Gilham Road, KC, MO  64108.

Here's our verse for tonight sent by one of you ~ "In peace, (Libby) will both lie down and sleep, for You alone, O LORD, will make her dwell in safety."   ~Psalm 4:8

Blessings, (and keep reading!)

Joy Shiner :)

P.S. Dru here ~ I know there are a ton of people out there that would love to hear from Troy and Dorsey directly.  They really want to send out a huge Thank You to you all as well.  Well we are going to try something a little different.  We are going to have a conference call on this Sunday afternoon at 3pm central time.  We will have Troy and Dorsey on the line and they will give everyone a quick update and then share a little bit from their hearts on what this amazing team of Prayer Warriors has meant to them.  The logistics are pretty straight forward.  We have room for 125 individual on the conference call.  We would like to ask that extended / out-of-town family and close friends attend as I am sure we cannot accomodate everyone on this email list, which by the way is over 800.  Praise GOD!   The line will be an open line, so all background noise will be heard by all, so please mute your phone so that we can minimize the interferance.  As time allows and it is managable, we will also try to allow people to say a word or two to the Paul's.  Obviously, not everyone will be able to talk, so we will do the best we can.  Again, this is a little different than anything I have heard of, but the Paul's really wanted to talk to the larger group if at all possible.

If you plan on attending the call, please try and make sure you dial into the number below a couple of minutes before 3pm on Sunday.  The phone number is 877-298-8255; the password is 5973027.  Thank again for all of your prayers and we will talk on Sunday!

FW: Libby Paul Prayer Update - Day 9 Part 2

 

Pray Partners,

This part will be short as we haven't had a ton of time talking with the Paul's today.  They arrived safely in Kansas City about 3pm today.  They flight went really well.  Libby was sedated and only awake for a few short miniutes of the entire trip.  They were admitted to Children's Mercy Hospital around 4:30pm.  Many of their family members were either there waiting for them or arrived throughout the evening.  Joy is down there now and will have a more detailed update later this evening. 

Praise God they are home.  What a relief to have them home and close to us all.  Thank you for your prayers today.   Please continue to pray for Libby's aggressive behavior.  Pray for peace and a stillness of her mind and heart.  Blessings!

Dru

The Paul's will be home...

To our Westminster Friends—

 

If all goes well, The Paul’s will be home tomorrow!!!

 

Thank you so much for your support of the Paul’s.  I am continually amazed by your support and willingness to give of your self to help members our community in times of celebration and crisis.  As we have experienced before, I know Troy and Dorsey have been blown away by your prayers and support.    

 

If you are interested in providing meals, I’ll have Amy consolidate the list of names for the Westminster community and pass it on to our friend Mandy Hill.  

 

As you know, Libby will be @ Children’s Mercy Hospital.  Here is the address information for cards, balloons, and other items.  

 

Children’s Mercy Hospital

2401 Gilham Road

Kansas City, MO  64108

(816) 234-3000

 

As it becomes available, we will provide any additional information on visiting the Troy, Dorsey and Libby.   Also until we know for sure regarding sending flowers and plants, please refrain until the doctor’s give the okay.

 

Standing in the Gap and expecting God to be glorified…

 

Paul Schmidt

M: 913.269.8333

H; 913.390.8255

E: kujayhawks@comcast.net or pschmidt@fivestarspeakers.com

 

 

 

FW: Libby Paul Update - Day 8 Part 2

Sorry if you got this again…I had an issue with my email today.  I have some good news coming right after this…

Hey Pray Partners,

Troy and Dorsey are having a great day.  They are upbeat and encouraged by all that is going on.  They are moving to their new room this afternoon and are ecstatic about it!  This is a little early for our normal part 2 email, but we need to get some very specific prayer requests out to you.  God loves details and especially detailed prayers.  He is intimately involved in our lives and is proving Himself faithful in answering even the most specific of prayers, so here are some more.

1.  Children's Mercy in KC has an available bed for Libby.  However, CM will not accept any patients that are a virus risk.  So here is the pre-requisite for them admitting her.  Libby has to have at least 3 bowel movements.  A minimum of 1 per day for 3 consecutive days.  She has had only a small one two days ago and they need her to do this so they can be sure everything is working right and there are no viruses.  Please pray that her systems would begin to work properly and regularly.

2.  Thank you so much for all of the offers for assistance with getting Libby home.  We have had so many offers of private plans, etc. that we can't believe it.  We double checked with the hospital and there is one restriction.  The flight has to be an air ambulance.  She can not travel on a commercial airline or via a private jet.  The most promising is a group called, Wings of Hope.  The problem is that there is sometimes a huge waiting list and the qualification process is pretty tight.  This is what we need.  Does anyone out there know someone personally at this or another Air Ambulance company that could help us?  I am not asking for a ton of people contact these companies.  What we need is anyone that has an inside track and could get Troy and Dorsey a personal introduction.  The case manager at the hospital is working with Troy and Dorsey on several options.  If you can help with this please contact me directly.  Dru Shiner (druandjoy@juno.com), with your contact information and we will get the ball rolling. 

3.  Libby is still very agitated.  This is actually getting worse.  As she becomes more aware of her situation, she gets more frustrated.  All of her requests and answers to questions are in the form of screams or yells.  She hasn't communicated in a normal tone all day.  This is obviously hard on the nerves for Troy and Dorsey.  Please pray for a calmness and peace to come over Libby and that she too would have patience in her current situation.

On a really cool note, Libby's big brother Mitchell (7) got to talk to Libby today for the first time.  He said how really sad he was that she got hurt and that he missed her.  She just began crying.  Dorsey said it was so sweet.  Please keep Mitchell and Duncan in your prayers as they are with family and friends here in KC until their parents get home.

FW: Libby Paul Update - Day 8 Part 3!

Friends

Good News await those who read on!  At the end see how to continue to pray for them….

Subject: Libby Paul Update - Day 8 Part 3!

Hello Fellow Prayer Warriors,

Dorsey called back a little while ago with an additional update~ And a very unexpected one!!

It looks like the Pauls will be flying back to Kansas City TOMORROW!!! :)  Yep, as it stands now, a MedWay air ambulance will fly all three Pauls still in Savannah back home.  They contacted them shortly after we had sent out the previous prayer update and that group had a flight open for tomorrow and was less than half the cost of the other options. 

The doctors agreed on this even after they thought they'd have to wait three days for the bowel movements.  Again, shortly after we asked for prayer on that!  Children's Mercy agreed to receive her and just quarantine her from other children until they have cleared her of viruses.  The doctors also want to start physical therapy right away with the group that will be her long-term team.  She is stable enough to come home, so she is coming home!  Dr. McKee has cleared her to be released for this 2 1/2-3 hour flight back, which means an ambulance will take them to the airportn at roughly 10am, they'll fly on MedWay to the Kansas City airport, and an ambulance will take them straight downtown to Children's Mercy Hospital!! YAY!!! 

*FYI, please wait to visit the Paul's until Saturday or after, as they're leaving Friday night for their families to greet them.  Also, remember that Libby can't be stimulated a great deal.  We will probably be seeing Troy and Dorsey in the visitor lobby and Libby at a later time.  That will all depend on how she is doing, timing and staff recommendations, etc.  We'll keep you posted on that.

OK, here's the number for Children's Mercy ~ (816) 234-3000.  The address is 2401 Gilham Road, Kansas City, MO  64108.  I know you're going to keep those love packages coming!

A HUGE thank you to so many of you who offered to secure a private plane for the Pauls, and they would have been thrilled to take you up on your offer except that the doctor specified that it had to be an air ambulance only.

Many of you have asked about the expense of this transfer.  Here is the net-net.  Their insurance policy only covers a transport to the original hospital, not subsequent transfers between hospitals.  This is a very big additional expense for the Pauls, but it was their only option to safely get Libby transferred from one hospital to another.  Dr. McKee even personally called the insurance carrier and asked for an exemption.  They declined.  Ugh!

A couple of prayer requests.  First, for a safe trip to Children's Mercy, with as little stress and trauma to Libby (and family) as possible. 

Second, and this is a pretty big one, Dorsey asked me to ask you all for prayer for Libby's agitation.  She's scared, as she's piecing together what happened to her.  She asked them, "Why am I in the hospital?"  She's been yelling and crying continually.  She's mentioned 'falling', and they're wondering with all her screaming if she's reliving the accident in some way.  This evening, I was talking to Troy and she awoke and was screaming, "GET OUT, GO AWAY", repeatedly.  Troy was trying to figure out what she needed and she yelled "THE ALLIGATORS ARE GETTING ME IN THE ELEVATOR, STOP THEM!!!".  He ran out of the room as if running them off and came back in and said they were gone.  She immediately calmed down. 

Her physical therapist came in their room today, and Libby yelled, "I don't want to exercise!"  So the therapist said, "OK, well then, I'm going to Walmart!"  Then she turned around and asked Libby, "Do you need anything from Walmart?"  And Libby said to her, "I want to go to Walmart with you!" :)  Isn't that hilarious?  And totally amazing?!

Also, many are asking for tangible ways to support the Paul's.  They will need food.  One of their dear friends Mandy Hill has graciously offered to coordinate their meals while at CMH and after.  For those of you in the KC area that are interested and willing to bring them a meal upon their return,  email mandy at Mandy@everestkc.net.  She will set up the schedule. Please include in your email your phone number and if there are certain nights of the week that do/do not work for you.  Hopefully food will be at least one thing they don't have to worry about.
We will have numerous other opportunities, and if you think of something else, feel free to give it!! 

Final thought of the day.

Has anyone ever questioned whether or not prayers are truly answered or life just happens?  How do we know how specific to bein our prayers?  Does God really answer specific prayers?  Why do things like this happen to the innocent?  Well if you have ever had questions like that then this past eight days should be able to answer many of those questions. 

A little girl named Libby has touched so many or our lives, in such a short period of time, in such a deep and profound way.  God has used this little girl to challenge our faith.  He has called upon the Body of Christ to pray and see His Glory, and we have.  If we allow this time in our lives, the lessons we have learned, and the changes God has asked out of each one of us to pass, then it was possibly all for not.  Dorsey has said many times, "I just want my old life back.".  While I want to see Libby fully restored, and I believe she will be, I have to admit that I DON'T want my old life back.  I want to forever be changed by this experience.  I pray that God challenges each of you to your very core to ask that same question of yourselves.  Do you really want to be the same as you were a week ago?

Until tomorrow, with deep gratitude to all of you,

Dru and Joy Shiner

FW: Libby Paul Update Day 8

Sorry about the delay... Amy’s Grandfather passed away today.  

Hey, all you wonderful people!!

ONE WEEK AGO this morning I received a call from a truly hysterical dear friend about a tragic fall her daughter experienced.  Friends, can you believe that it's only been 7 short days?  Well, it's because of all the amazing prayers of so many hundreds of people have lifted to God on her behaf that I share with you the GREAT NEWS this morning that Libby Paul is being released from the pediatric ICU today and moved to the regular pediatric floor of the hospital in Savannah, Georgia!!!  God is faithful! :)

What we know right now is that Libby is asking for her immediate needs as they come up, from being hungry, needing to use the bathroom, wanting her IV out, etc.  Dorsey said she's yelling her requests instead of talking.  Since we're being specific in our prayers here, folks, this morning Libby needs to have a bowel movement in a BIG way (no pun intended! :))  It's been a week now, and she keeps asking to go to the bathroom, which is a HUGE ordeal to lift and move her.  It's happened numerous times to no avail, and she seems very uncomfortable.  Please continue to pray that her body starts functioning properly, even in the details.

Dorsey's friend and brother have been there to visit, and her friend is helping her pack this morning to leave the Ronald McDonald house.  They will just stay in the hospital room with Libby now, since it has a bed and shower.  They just want to be with Libby anyway.

Dorsey said to tell everyone THANK YOU for the amazing gift baskets arriving continually. She said she feels like it's her wedding all over again, and I laughed, since I've told her I feel like a "stand-in bride" at HER wedding with all the love Dru and I have been receiving from everyone as a result of all this!  Anyway, she and Troy are enjoying hearing from everyone, but she wanted to reiterate that it's impossible to email back, which makes her feel bad.  I assured her that anyone reading this completely understands that replying to hundreds of us is not what she needs to be doing right now.  So, from Dorsey and Troy to you all, once again, THANK YOU for your amazing stories, prayers, verses, thoughts, and love sent via email and on the Libby Paul website.  It's hard to believe it's just 40 hours old, and there have been over 3,000 hits on it...WOW!!  They feel so incredibly supported through your prayers for them.

The Pauls will not have email access in their new hospital room.  Emailing will require them to go downstairs to a lobby area, which again, if Libby needs to be lifted, etc. is impossible.  So feel free to continue to write or email, because I know it's been GREAT for them to hear from so many different people, but please know that they can't respond at this time.  Your words mean more than you know to Troy and Dorsey!!

Like Dru said last night, the prognosis long term is that Libby will be inpatient at Children's Mercy Hospital (most likely) for 3 weeks or longer, depending on her progress.  We still are unsure on a release date for Libby, so please pray for wisdom on that decision.  Thank you for many of you who have responded to the possibility of flying them home on Angel Flight or a private plane.  We are in the process of researching the possibilities, and your thoughts are welcome and appreciated!

Well, it sure feels like the longest week of my life~ How about you all?!  I feel like we're old friends by now!! :)  We of course will continue to keep you posted with any changes, and please don't let up on those prayers!  This week will be a whole lot brighter!!!

At our church's midweek service, we sang this song, and it's running through my head today:

Give thanks to the LORD, our God and King, His love endures forever!

For He is good, He is above all things, His love endures forever!

Sing praise, sing praise; Sing praise, sing praise!

With a mighty hand and an outstretched arm, His love endures forever;

FOR THE LIFE THAT'S BEEN REBORN, His love endures forever.

FOREVER God is faithful, FOREVER God is strong, FOREVER God is with us, FOREVER!

From the rising to the setting sun, His love endures forever;

By the grace of God we will carry on, His love endures forever.

Sing praise, sing praise; Sing praise, sing praise !

FOREVER God is faithful, FOREVER God is strong, FOREVER God is with us, FOREVER!

 Praising God with you today,

Joy Shiner :)

FW: Libby Paul Update Day 7

 

 

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From: druandjoy@juno.com [mailto:druandjoy@juno.com]
Sent: Wednesday, June 07, 2006 12:20 PM
To:
Subject: Libby Paul Update Day 7

 

Hey Prayer Partners,

Sorry this has taken so long today.  It has been a crazy morning.  I just talked to Troy and Dorsey and here is a quick rundown of last night and today.

As you might recall, yesterday was a very tough emotional day.  Libby was upset most of the day without saying anything and coupled with some of the Doctors long-term prognosis, made for a disappointing day.  And then God happened. 

Around 5pm yesterday, Dr. McKee was speaking with Troy and Dorsey and was asking how she was doing.  They both expressed their disappointment that she hadn't talked all day.  At that very moment, Libby hollared, "I gotta go..."  They didn't understand her and asked again, "I gotta go pottie!"  She did and the doctor said that was a huge step.  Recognizing a bodily urge, verbalizing it and then acting it out.  He said he is continually amazed at her progress.  Later in the evenning she again asked to go "pottie".  That was very encouraging to them both.

Overnight was very tough.  She is not sleeping well and having significant "neuro storms".  She only sleeps for about 10 min. at a time then wakes up moaning.  Dorsey stayed up all night with her and gave her ice chips each time to sooth her.  It seems to be the only thing to calm her down.  So both girls are very tired today.  Dorsey left to get cleaned up at the Ronald McDonald house this morning and Troy took over.  She asked to go to the "bathroom" this morning.  Continued progress.

This is where the update gets really good.  The physical therapist came in to see how she was doing.  They sat her up and the PT said how impressed she was that her muscule control was so much better.  She sat up straighter and was able to hold her head more still than yesterday.  They then tried to stand her up to see how she would respond.  She was unable to stand up, but tried with all her might.  Troy was across from her and the PT asked if she wanted to see her Daddy.  She motioned toward him and she started moving her knees up and down trying to walk.  Although she couldn't the PT was encouraged that she had some gross motor skills.  When Troy hugged her, Libby tried to wrap her arms around him.  She doesn't have much control over her extremeties.  As she leaned in against him she said, " I wanna lay down on you!".  A favorite pasttime at home.  Sleeping on Daddy's chest.  ISN'T THAT AWESOME!  The PT even told Troy at the end of the session that she had a dream about Libby last night.  Her name is Lynette, and she made up this elaborate plan for Libby this week.  She said it was all blown up now with today's progress.  She said instead of looking Week-to-Week like she said yesterday, they could look Day-to-Day with this kind of progress.

Their nurse that worked with them upon arrival at the hospital last Thursday also came in and just started to cry when seeing her for the first time since Friday.  She said she was truly overwhelmed by her progress and just how sweet she was.  Libby is touching lives left and right!

Next came the speech therapist.  They started working with her and Libby has yet to respond to a verbal question or command with anything other than a physical action.  She started with trying to offer her applesauce.  Libby liked it and the therapist tried to get her to respond to using a spoon.  She couldn't, but while feeding her, Libby licked her lips.  The therapist noted it as not a baby step, but a huge step.  It seems that brain injury patients recover from the center line of the body out.  So any control over eyes, mouth, neck, urinary track, etc. is a sign of progress.  To actually exhibit the fine motor skills required to lick her lips was a great sign of improvement.  When finished she stuck her fingers in her mouth.  They asked her if she wanted more.  After a few attempts to figure out what she wanted she said, "I don't want any more". 

So that is where we are at so far today.  Troy is greatly encouraged and uplifted.  He is absolutely convinced that our Prayer mtg. last night and the faithful prayers of you all are directly healing his daughter.  In talking with Dorsey, she is very disappointed to have missed this entire mornings activities.  She was exhausted and trying to clean up, etc.  While she is encouraged by what she heard happen, it was hard for her to miss it.  This makes her want to stay around more and that will obviously weigh on her.   Dorsey said it is really hard right now overall because whenever Libby wakes up she is sad, upset and has a mean voice.  This is so not her little girl.  She just wants to see one smile, one happy expression.  Anything to know that she is not in perpetual pain.  "I want my Libby back."  Please lift up Troy and Dorsey today as they continue this emotional roller coaster of a ride.  Blessing to you all for being so amazing in your support for the Paul's. 

Dru

Remember, there is a new website for Libby that has all of the updates, etc.  http://www.caringbridge.com/visit/libbypaul

 

The Wait Poem by Russel Kelfer

by Russell Kelfer

Desperately, helplessly, longingly, I cried;Quietly, patiently, lovingly, God replied.I pled and I wept for a clue to my fate...and the Master so gently said,"Wait."
"Wait? you say wait?" my indignant reply."Lord, I need answers, I need to know why!"Is your hand shortened? Or have you not heard? By faith I have asked, and I'm claiming your Word.
My future and all to which I relatehangs in the balance and you tell me to Wait?" I'm needing a 'yes', a go-ahead sign.Or even a 'no,' to which I'll resign.
You promised, dear Lord, that if we believe, We need but to ask, and we shall receive. Lord, I've been asking, and this is my cry: I'm weary of asking! I need a reply.
Then quietly, softly, I learned of my fate as my Master replied again, "Wait." So I slumped in my chair, defeated and taut, and grumbled to God, "So, I'm waiting...for what?"
He seemed then to kneel, and His eyes met with mine... and He tenderly said, "I could give you a sign. I could shake the heavens and darken the sun. I could raise the dead and cause mountains to run.
I could give all you seek and pleased you would be. You'd have what you want, but you wouldn't know Me.You'd not know the depth of My love for each saint. You'd not know the power that I give to the faint.
You'd not learn to see through clouds of despair; you'd not learn to trust just by knowing I'm there. You'd not know the joy of resting in Me when darkness and silence are all you can see.
You'd never experience the fullness of love when the peace of My spirit descends like a dove.You would know that I give, and I save, for a start, But you'd not know the depth of the beat of My heart.
The glow of My comfort late into the night, the faith that I give when you walk without sight. The depth that's beyond getting just what you ask From an infinite God who makes what you have last.
You'd never know should your pain quickly flee, what it means that My grace is sufficient for thee. Yes, your dearest dreams overnight would come true, but oh, the loss if I lost what I'm doing in you.
So, be silent, my child, and in time you will see that the greatest of gifts is to truly know me. And though oft My answers seem terribly late, My most precious answer of all is still "WAIT".

FW: Libby Paul--Day 6

Whitney Stallard and Robyn Palmer visited yesterday. Thank God for them! This report comes through them.

Amy

 

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Subject: Libby Paul--Day 6

 

Dear Paul Prayer Partners,

Good morning!  Before I begin, just wanted to send a HAPPY ANNIVERSARY wish to Dorsey's parents, John and Ann Gay, who celebrated 40 years together yesterday!  God is faithful!!

Well, friends, this morning brought an early phone call from two special gals who went to visit the Paul's yesterday.  Looks like we need to keep praying!  Here's the latest:

Last night, Dorsey had a long talk with the night nurse.  Basically, LIbby is "awake" but not "alert" as we all know.  The nurse was telling Dorsey that typically brain injury patients will take anywhere from 7-21 days, just for this phase of healing, meaning Libby could be writhing and moaning, saying some words for days now.  Then the conversation went from there, including the long-term possibilities of extended therapy for both her body and her mind.

We have not yet talked to Dorsey or Troy this morning,  but they're again asking for prayer. Obviously, this news was profoundly disturbing to them, when they kept thinking Libby would just "wake up" and ask for something to eat.  A brain injury is just so very different, and there are still so many unknowns long term.  As a parent, your concern becomes for your child, like "What will their new personality be?" and "Will they ever be like they were before?"  I think the "Cloud 1,000" the Pauls were on feels more like "20,000 Leagues Under the Sea" this morning!  They're realizing just how long this journey for them is going to be.  Not fun news!

This raises numerous questions, and we will continue to keep you posted.  This is all we know right now, but we wanted to "deploy the prayer troops" this morning, since we know literally thousands of people are receiving this news and lifting Libby up in prayer~ THANK YOU!!

Several people shared just yesterday how one of the names of God in Scripture is JEHOVAH RAPHA, the God who heals. We know that, and so let's prayer today that He will COMPLETELY RESTORE Libby Paul, mind and body.  We are willing to wait for His timing, but this is our heart's cry for the Paul's.  The verses that her mom friends who visited her shared with me were these: 

"WAIT for the LORD; BE STRONG and TAKE HEART and WAIT for the LORD." ~Psalm 27:14

Also from Luke, where Jesus tells his followers,

"Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat; or about your body, what you will wear.  Life is more than food, and the body more than clothes.  Consider the ravens:  They do not sow or reap, they have no storeroom or barn; yet God feeds them.  And how much more  valuable you are than birds!  Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life?  Since you cannot do this very little thing, who do you worry about the rest?"  ~Luke 12:22-26

I don't know about you, but this DOES cause me to start worrying, and my mind to have unrest.  These past few days have been like "auto pilot", going through the motions of my real life, but all the while not forgetting ONE MINUTE about Libby and her dire situation.  I think we're all there!  Anyone who is a parent or loves kids can't help but be consumed by this!

But here's the great news this morning:  Because of our continuous prayers, the nurse also told Dorsey that Libby should never be where she is right now!!  Her progress is already amazing the medical team there!  Isn't that good to hear?  Libby is continuing to heal!

Also, her friends reported that Troy and Dorsey have such UNITY right now in their marriage, so thank you for praying for their relationship.  We have a real enemy who is prowling around looking for a foothold to get in and tear them down.  Their friends told me there is no dissention between them, and they're just a STRONG UNIT, which is such a huge witness to the power of God in their lives and marriage.  Let's keep lifting them up today and asking the LORD to protect their marriage through all this stress!  As we all know, it's tough just to pack the family in the car for church or something without marital stress!! :)  Something like this can make or break them, and we KNOW that their marriage will be stronger than ever because of their complete dependence on God and our intercession on their behalf in prayer.

All this will make most of us want to scramble about and try to "fix" it or "do" something, which as we know is impossible.  I would encourage you to grab a Bible and pray Scripture for the Paul's, possibly starting in Psalms if you are short on words like I am this morning.

"BE STILL, AND KNOW THAT I AM GOD;  I WILL BE EXALTED AMONG THE NATIONS, I WILL BE EXALTED IN THE EARTH.  THE LORD ALMIGHTY IS WITH US, THE GOD OF JACOB IS OUR FORTRESS."     ~ Psalm 46:10-11

Thanks, team!  Couldn't be here without you all!!

Joy Shiner :)